Lost1313 (original poster new member #85442) posted at 7:20 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2025
To everyone who has replied to my post I say thank you. So many different ways to look at this and how to deal with it. All of your input has helped me understand the many different areas and emotions that this subject touches us. Infidelity is not fair to those that did not make that choice and the next choice that I have to make is to accept that and move on with my recovery and not look back and expect things that I don't control. I am weeks away from being 69 years old and never expected to be in this position heading into retirement. Nothing will change with me and my wife unless we communicate better and regularly. This will be my first priority moving forward along with complete honesty between us. You will never understand how disruptive infidelity can be until you lived through it and experienced it firsthand. Your on cruise control through life and then you hit a wall head on and everything hurts.
Thank you all again.
Lost1313
BH LTA 15 years Dday March 2022Been together for almost 50 years.Married for 42 years Aug 2024.
